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What's your musical horoscope?  (Put your player on shuffle and write down the first 10 songs that come up.) 

1.  jay-z...i know

2.  lupe fiasco...american terrorist

3.  q-tip...lets ride

4.  missy elliot...joy

5.  lil wayne...you nasty

6.  dj khaled...i'm so hood

7.  lupe fiasco...what it do

8.  pharrell...baby

9.  twista...wrist stay rocky

10.  birdman/baby...pop bottles

ok, this is just something i had to get off my chest that some people might be upset about hearing but i have to say it.  women, this goes out to you so you understand a man's thinking about abortion and birth control and so on.  if for some reason god, or nature if you don't believe which is perfectly fine, were to make men the individuals to get pregnant, things would be a lot different.  1...if a man were to see an attractive women he wanted to pursue, and does, he would not have sex without a condom.  2...if he did have sex without a condom, it would be because he was on the pill.  3...if he wasn't on the pill, or any other type of birth control, he wouldn't be against abortion.  4...if he wasn't on the pill, wasn't on birth control, and was against abortion, including the day after pill, he would not have sex that night!!!  i see this because oh so often, i see women getting pregnant unintentionally and i can't understand how.  and the reason this upsets me is because the man then, 1...has to father a child when the time might not be right for him, causing him to have to change life plan.  2...pay child support for the next 18 years.  3...will probably only be able to see his child when it's convienient for the mother, and all of this is because the woman wouldn't take the necissary precausions.  than the man looks like a complete asshole if he even mentions abortion.  now none of this applies if the female is on the pill but still somehow gets pregnant, because if this is the case, the man needs to stop being a punk and step up to the plate and be a man and take care of that kid and give him everything he needs and more.  this isn't woman bashing or anything like that, this is simply something that has been on my mind because it seems like something so important as bringing a child into this crazy world, is left completely up to the woman and the man has no say.  for any man that reads this, WEAR A CONDOM!!  yeah they suck, we all know and when the time comes and your without one, most of us will think with our dicks and have sex anyway.  if your one of those men, just recognize the consequenses that could come your way.  with all this being said, i love women, i respect women, i believe women have a tougher time in this world than men in this world (especially black women) so please don't be upset with this blog posting.

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